Chris & Kat
September 19, 2026
Chris and Kat

Together with their families

Chris & Kat

September 19, 2026

Big Sur, California

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How it all began

Our Story

Chris and Kat

It began the way so many great love stories do - quietly, without anyone knowing quite what it was.

Chris and Kat met during their very first week of college. He was one of the first friends she made, and almost effortlessly, their circles merged into one. Before long, they were all spending every weekend together, tangled up in the particular chaos of being young and free.

For a while, that's all they were: part of the same world, orbiting the same people, building the same memories. Weekend hangs, late nights, the beautiful nonsense of early adulthood. For years, that was enough.

Then came 2018, and what can only be described as their roommate era. They were both in need of a roommate, and conveniently, inevitably, they found each other. What followed was the kind of quiet domesticity that sneaks up on you. She would come home to find her favorite snacks waiting on the counter, their favorite show already queued up. They stayed up too late, talking about everything and nothing. They built a rhythm that felt, without either of them saying so, a lot like home.

The snacks, the shows, the late nights talking - it already felt like something. And then he said the words that made it official: let's get a cat.

So, as friends, they adopted Chonky. And by now, dear reader, you can see exactly where this is going - and so could they.

Two weeks after bringing Chonky home, they finally stopped pretending.

And in true Friends fashion — think Monica and Chandler, secret smiles and all — they told absolutely no one for an entire month.

That was nearly eight years ago.

Since then, they have grown up side by side. They navigated early adulthood together, added two fur kids to the family and, for good measure, a horse too. They've traveled, built a beautiful life, and become, in every sense of the word, each other's person.

This is the short version of their story. The long one is still being written.

Thank you for being here as they make the most important promise of their lives. Your presence means the world to them both.

Join Us

Wedding Details

The Ceremony

Saturday, September 19, 2026

Please arrive by Four O'Clock in the Afternoon, Ceremony at Four Thirty

The Village, Big Sur

46840 CA-1, Big Sur
California 93920

The Reception

Dinner & Dancing to Follow

Cocktail Hour at Five

The Village, Big Sur

46840 CA-1, Big Sur
California 93920

We Hope You Can Make It

RSVP

Kindly reply by July 31, 2026

Good to Know

FAQ

Please RSVP here on the site by July 31st. Simply head to the RSVP section above and fill out the short form — it only takes a minute!

Cocktail Attire

Please dress in cocktail attire for our wedding. Think elegant and polished — we'd love for everyone to feel their best alongside us.

The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outdoors, so please dress for the weather accordingly.

Both of these events are also on grass, so keep that in mind when selecting your footwear!

Dancing, however, will be indoors — so you're all set once the party starts.

Important Note

There are no Ubers available to and from the venue.

We will be providing shuttles to and from the wedding, with designated pickup points at Carmel Mission Inn and Pfeiffer Cabins.

Please check back closer to the wedding date for specific shuttle pickup locations and times.

During the Ceremony

We kindly ask that all phones be put away and kept off during the ceremony. We want everyone — including you — to be fully present for this moment. Our photographer will capture everything beautifully!

Outside of the ceremony, absolutely — we'd love for you to capture memories with us! We'd also love to see your photos afterward and get to experience the day through your eyes.

We have accommodation options reserved for our guests at two locations — both also serve as shuttle pickup points:

Room Block

Carmel Mission Inn

A block of rooms has been reserved for our guests. Details to follow.

Limited Availability

Pfeiffer State Park Cabins

A few cabins remain available — a beautiful and unique option right in the park.

Book Early

Big Sur accommodations fill up quickly. We strongly recommend booking sooner rather than later to secure your spot.

If your question isn't answered here, please reach out to either of us directly via text and we'll get back to you as soon as we can!